Comunicazioni

Scrivo un paio di cose in ordine sparso perché non so dove altro scriverle.

1) Su questo blog pubblico solo i miei post per lasciare la pagina il più possibile pulita e organizzata. Se volete restare aggiornati sulle cose che trovo sul web e mi interessano (libri, musica, citazioni, siti, podcast) seguite la pagina Facebook di Diario di una bibliomane (il box è in fondo a questa pagina). Oggi vi segnalo un bellissimo podcast di Paolo Nori sul credo politico di chi legge.

2) Se invece volete leggere tutte le mie ulteriori scemenze potete seguirmi su Twitter al nick @CLPortland. Sono praticamente sempre lì.

3) Se invece ancora volete scrivermi o discutere con me di qualcosa potete mardarmi una e-mail a chiaradonadi11@gmail.com. Rispondo sempre (questo lo dico soprattutto per chi mi aveva scritto ai tempi di Imparerei solo l’inglese perché era la lingua di Lennon; avevo ricevuto troppe e-mail e non ho risposto a nessuno, se riprovate ora vi rispondo sicuramente). Accetto e apprezzo anche segnalazioni di siti, podcast, citazioni, blog etc. Insomma, qualunque cosa possa venirvi in mente di segnalarmi.

4) Ultima cosa: più persone mi hanno fatto notare che questa grafica è poco navigabile. Lo penso anch’io, ma purtroppo non ho nessuna competenza in campo informatico, quindi lancio un appello: se qualcuno di voi può e vuole aiutarmi mi contatti, ne ho bisogno!

PS: ultima cosa dopo l’ultima cosa.
A tutti voi che leggete, grazie. Grazie a quelli con cui sto facendo chilometriche chiacchierate via e-mail e a quelli che mi dedicano un click invece di leggere altro. Che la poesia e la bellezza siano con voi.
Vi voglio bene, anche se non vi conosco.

Al prossimo post, o alla prossima mail!

Servizio sgombero ricordi e libri

Sulla soglia della sala il nipote mi guarda e si stringe nelle spalle.
-Non ha mai voluto buttare via niente.

Indossa una maglia di cashmere verde e occhiali sottili sulla faccia allungata. Guardo lo scaffale e tiro fuori dalla mensola di centro uno dei volumi.
-Non si preoccupi, ci pensiamo noi.

Lo apro. Le pagine sono gialle, la data sul frontespizio giugno 1889. Un sussidiario per le scuole elementari. Pieno di commenti e annotazioni a margine in calligrafia sottile e scritti a matita.

-Mia nonna aveva la mania per la roba vecchia.

Guardo una pagina.
-È una mania degli anziani, credo-aggiunge.

Ha evidente fretta che quella stanza sia sgombera in fretta. Chiudo il libro e lo ripongo nel suo spazio.
-Sí. È una mania degli anziani.

Non buttano mai via nulla.

You will propose on a hot air baloon.

“You should date a girl who reads.

Date a girl who reads. Date a girl who spends her money on books instead of clothes, who has problems with closet space because she has too many books. Date a girl who has a list of books she wants to read, who has had a library card since she was twelve. Find a girl who reads. You’ll know that she does because she will always have an unread book in her bag. She’s the one lovingly looking over the shelves in the bookstore, the one who quietly cries out when she has found the book she wants. You see that weird chick sniffing the pages of an old book in a secondhand book shop? That’s the reader. They can never resist smelling the pages, especially when they are yellow and worn.

She’s the girl reading while waiting in that coffee shop down the street. If you take a peek at her mug, the non-dairy creamer is floating on top because she’s kind of engrossed already. Lost in a world of the author’s making. Sit down. She might give you a glare, as most girls who read do not like to be interrupted. Ask her if she likes the book.

Buy her another cup of coffee.

Let her know what you really think of Murakami. See if she got through the first chapter of Fellowship. Understand that if she says she understood James Joyce’s Ulysses she’s just saying that to sound intelligent. Ask her if she loves Alice or she would like to be Alice.

It’s easy to date a girl who reads. Give her books for her birthday, for Christmas, for anniversaries. Give her the gift of words, in poetry and in song. Give her Neruda, Pound, Sexton, Cummings. Let her know that you understand that words are love. Understand that she knows the difference between books and reality but by god, she’s going to try to make her life a little like her favorite book. It will never be your fault if she does.

She has to give it a shot somehow.

Lie to her. If she understands syntax, she will understand your need to lie. Behind words are other things: motivation, value, nuance, dialogue. It will not be the end of the world.

Fail her. Because a girl who reads knows that failure always leads up to the climax. Because girls who read understand that all things must come to end, but that you can always write a sequel. That you can begin again and again and still be the hero. That life is meant to have a villain or two.

Why be frightened of everything that you are not? Girls who read understand that people, like characters, develop. Except in the Twilight series.

If you find a girl who reads, keep her close. When you find her up at 2 AM clutching a book to her chest and weeping, make her a cup of tea and hold her. You may lose her for a couple of hours but she will always come back to you. She’ll talk as if the characters in the book are real, because for a while, they always are.

You will propose on a hot air balloon. Or during a rock concert. Or very casually next time she’s sick. Over Skype.

You will smile so hard you will wonder why your heart hasn’t burst and bled out all over your chest yet. You will write the story of your lives, have kids with strange names and even stranger tastes. She will introduce your children to the Cat in the Hat and Aslan, maybe in the same day. You will walk the winters of your old age together and she will recite Keats under her breath while you shake the snow off your boots.

Date a girl who reads because you deserve it. You deserve a girl who can give you the most colorful life imaginable. If you can only give her monotony, and stale hours and half-baked proposals, then you’re better off alone. If you want the world and the worlds beyond it, date a girl who reads.

Or better yet, date a girl who writes.”

[Rosemarie Urquico]

NB: probabilmente alcuni di voi conosceranno quest’articolo, ma mi sembrava bello condividerlo.